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ByCertainly, skills that would help one be a good conversationalist are similar to skills a jazz musician uses. There are a number of qualities one can find in jazz and which can be brought over into conversation, or social interaction.
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And really, who doesn't prefer this? Have you tried to shop at any type of local chain store lately? If you're lucky enough to find an employee of the place, they're probably too busy thinking about why they're "too good for their stinking job" to take the time to tell you that they "don't know and don't care" where that item you're looking for is.
But where did this viscous cycle start? Just exactly when did we become such an inconsiderate society? Little matter, for we're here now, in this together, and it ain't very pretty. I think things could get a lot better if we just rediscovered our ability to carry on a decent conversation. Obey some simple rules of common courtesy, decent manners, and basic respect. You know -kind of the old "treat others the way you would like them to treat you" thing?
Thankfully, the area of jazz improvisation is one area where these types of skills are still valuable, necessary, even mandatory commodities. It's often been conjectured that a jazz performance has similarities with a conversation, and in many ways I agree. Certainly, skills that would help one be a good conversationalist are similar to skills a jazz musician uses. There are a number of qualities one can find in jazz and which can be brought over into conversation, or social interaction. Here are some suggestions, observations, postulations, and speculations. Perhaps a little reflection on this topic will lead to an increased appreciation for good conversation, meaningful interactions, and great jazz. Listen. And don't just listen, really work at "hearing" what others have to say.
Respond with something intelligent, meaningful. Add something to the discussion. Don't just spew out cliches.
Stop talking once in a whileallow silence from yourself and from others.
Think about the way Miles Davis would use space. How he would allow his rhythm section a chance to comment on what he had just played, to amplify it, reflect it back to him and add meaning to it. Think about the way Herbie Hancock (or Bill Evans, or Wynton Kelly, or Thelonious Monk, or Horace Silver) would reply, and how the accompaniment that they played has become as important the solo, how when you imagine the solo in your minds' ear you can't hear it without hearing the comping also. Allow others to have their say.
Allow for contradictory ideas without trying to scream over them, drown them out.
Don't be afraid of other people's ideas.
Allow someone else's ideas to exist without fear that they will annihilate your own.
Acknowledge that others have something to offer. Welcome outside input. But don't be afraid to decline the offer to use it. Remain open.
Understand that if you allow competing ideas to cancel each other out, everyone loses.
While these attributes are evident in much jazz, they're most clearly on display in music that relies heavily on collective improvisation. Think about the music of Ornette, Cecil Taylor, late Coltrane, the Jimmy Giuffre 3, Mingus with Dolphy, Chick Corea's Trio Music. Realize that the most interesting things might be coming from someone else.
Even when the most interesting thing came from you, someone else might have more to add to it than you do. Let others use your ideas.
Allow someone else to take up your idea and run with it. Let them take it places you hadn't intended it to go.
Oliver Nelson. Truth and the Abstract Blues. It's his record, and his music. But without the contributions of Eric Dolphy, Freddie Hubbard, Bill Evans, Paul Chambers, Roy Haynes, and the oft-unmentioned George Barrow, this record would not be the classic that it is.
Work toward a common goal, yet retain your individuality.
Competition can be good. Cooperation can be beautiful.
Blakey's Messengers. Any cutting session. "The Eternal Triangle" with Dizzy and Sonny and Sonny. Coltrane and Cannonball. Rollins and Coltrane"Tenor Madness." Phil Meets Quill. Stitt and Ammons. Dexter and Wardell. "The Four Brothers." Yeah.
Don't be afraid to contradict yourself. Follow the ideas presented to see where they lead.
Don't think you know all there is to know. Don't think you know more than everyone else does. Don't think you even fully understand your own ideas. Try to be aware of the limits of your knowledge. Admit that there are limits to your knowledge.
Don't shy away from people with stronger voices than your own. Don't be intimidated. Realize that everyone has something to add, if they speak honestly.
Speak with conviction. Even if it's only to say "I'm not sure." There's nothing wrong with uncertainty. It's better to be uncertain than to be certain and wrong. Always maintain humility.
John McLaughlin being told by Miles Davis to play like he didn't know how to play the guitar. Jimmy Garrison and his role in the Coltrane Quartet. Bill Evans giving free reing to Scott LaFaro and Paul Motian. Red Norvo being pushed and prodded by Charles Mingus and Tal Farlow.
These are just a bunch of random thoughts, ideas that can apply to conversation, social interaction, and/or jazz improvisation. When these type of things happen the interaction can be an invigorating and enriching experience for the participants, as well as for those on the periphery, be they audience or simply folks who listen in on a good conversation. Give these ideas a little consideration the next time you listen to some jazz, or strike up a conversation with someone.
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