That they can reach these heights while backing you should be the greatest of compliments, if only you were open to it. The freewheeling, exotic life story that is your song has helped them get in touch with their own unspoken desires. That they restrict you to "one shot" is typical of male sexuality, and you shouldn't be surprised if they fall asleep shortly after the tune ends.
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